Question, question, who's got the question

I can't recall when, but at sometime in my life I made the observation that people ask people that they care about more questions than somebody that they don't care about. You see it in a lot of places; friends, children to their parents, parents to their children, people who are married, and especially guys to girls when starting a relationship.

But one thing seems weird to me, in the relationships I've had, I've never had a girl ask me anything about myself. Other than being a male who likes them, they probably don't remember a thing about me, because they never asked. Why is that? Are young woman just dumb, and can't think to ask? Do girls just run around doing things and never ponder? Do girls not ask each other questions? Or perhaps, sadly, all the girls I've ben with just like how I look, but don't care about who I am inside?

I actually hope it's the last one, and that I will someday meet someone that does care about such things. The alternative of most woman just being to dumb to ask questions is to stereotypical and very very sad if true.

Anyone know? Any comments on the observation itself?

It just all depends on the women. It sounds like you've run into a bad string of women who are just out to find a guy and feel secure. It's just a case of bad luck. You know when you'll find a chick who really really digs you because she will want to know everything about you. From you're childhood to how many girls you've been with. Just stick with it and you'll find the right one.

Thats just my opinion.

99% of the time women just want you to listen to them talk about themselves.

When you find one that isn't like that, marry her. :)

i went out with this one chick, who asked ME out an' the whole time we were eating dinner she didn't ask me anything about myself. she didn't really talk about herself much either. i ended up asking all the questions.....most of wich she only answered yes or no to, an' by the end of the night i felt like i had bored her to death with my barrage of questions. don't worry, not all girls are only interested in telling people about themselves. when you do find someone who has just as much interest in you as you do in them it's a great feeling.

I used to wonder if anyone really listened to me when I spoke - I realized few people did, and thus greatly reduced the amount that I spoke. In return, I only really listen to certain people thesedays and make it painfully obvious when I do not.

...Did that sound bitter?

Sometimes I have to wonder if they are not scared of something. Just the way being scared keaps guys from asking people out, women let fear keep them from doing a lot. so maybe

that could be it, then again it could just be them being totally self-centered and oblivious to the rest of the world.

well it sounds like you ran into a bad string of women, i know i ask innova all kinds of questions, he's my best friend and i know a lot about him as a person and he knows a lot about me as well..if you meet the right person they will open up to you and want to know more about you...but the problem is a lot of women just want sex now a days and don't care about what guys are like on the inside

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Originally posted by ShadowedStar
well it sounds like you ran into a bad string of women

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deja vu

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Originally posted by ShadowedStar
but the problem is a lot of women just want sex now a days

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really now??