Colour me curious as to the general consensus among the male population here at TNL.
And yes, I'm aware how redundant that was.
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Colour me curious as to the general consensus among the male population here at TNL.
And yes, I'm aware how redundant that was.
Worth it...
Although it really depends on the girl.
Also, for the sake of clarity and hopefully to avoid any potential mis-votes: "sacking" oneself is a colloquial term for sustaining a painful and often crippling blow to one's groin.
Thanks for your vote!
I thought you were somehow referring to their ability to take all your money.
I'd say that particular phenomenon falls more under the "trouble" category.
this is gay. i thought it was gonna be women: whats your favorite: white:asian:latina:hindi:sista....you know that type of thing, this is gonna get all emotional.
if you dont answer worth it of course your gay....duh.
what fun is that?
Ehh? Since when would men allow emotion to take precedence over a preponderance of sense or reason?
Now go forth and vote, my level-headed brethren.
Ehhh...ok......worht it.... i love my fiance very much and it was worth every dollar.
good answer mode 7.
women are crazy. the whole lot of them. (recall my past handle) but I think their worth the hassle.
L?Quote:
(recall my past handle)
I realize I'm the only one who'll find that amusing and apologize accordingly. Many thanks for your input.
M, correct me if I'm wrong, because this may be another female tnl poster, but you like both don't you? (if im speaking out of line just ingore this)
If so how do you feel about girls now that youve tried to get close to them, as compared to back before you did not give a crap about all this physical relations shit? Are they any more crazzy now, than then?
(again, if im out of line, just ingore this)
I laughed. But now I'm wondering if there's something to it beyond "L comes before M". ah well. I voted "worth it".Quote:
L?
I realize I'm the only one who'll find that amusing and apologize accordingly.
Sadly, no.Quote:
But now I'm wondering if there's something to it beyond "L comes before M".
Very interesting question by the way, Plant. Hadn't considered things from quite that angle, not surprisingly.
ZING!Quote:
Originally posted by Mode7
L?
If you likes the womens, then yes of course it's worth it. Although it really does depends on who you're dealing with.
Women are way overrated. Yes they're fun and yes I'm into that whole sex thing but face it you can live a happy life as a user of woman, die old, alone and still be happy.
You just have to make sure that you use obscene amounts of protection - condoms for both him and her, dental dams, lobster bibs, safety glasses, etc. :whoa:Quote:
Originally posted by ShineAqua
Women are way overrated. Yes they're fun and yes I'm into that whole sex thing but face it you can live a happy life as a user of woman, die old, alone and still be happy.
I voted worth it. Every damn minute and every dollar spent. Sex is always a good thing and on top of that (if you're the kind of person who needs the other things) your girlfriend/fiance/wife can be a source of inspiration and someone to talk to about your worries and fears. The bonus to this is that if you have a good lady, not only will she not tell that stuff about you but you'll also never have to worry about slipping up and telling one of your buddies that you're afraid of something. Hehe.
Jack: "Yeah, so we're going to war."
Steve: "Sheesh, I hope they don't have a draft. I'm so scared of dieing I just peed my pants."
Jack: *no longer has any respect for Steve* "Pussy."
It has nothing to do with protection or disease it has to do with emotional baggage. And woman come with tons of it. If I feel the need to unpack a bit I've got friends. No need for a permanent life mate for me.
For Analogy purposes, it's like a job:
You do a lot of work with other people and in the end you get the pay.
For Women:
You win them over, and share a relationship, in the end you get Emotional/Physical/Mental Rewards.
Well worth it. I love my wife and I'm a happy man :p
Worth it.
...unless your girl turns into a wack-job.
well... you are correct sir in your assumtion that I like both. I havent really ever dated any girls cus 1. usually the ones who I am mostly attracted to are... not datable or mentally unstable. 2. I have trust issues with females so I doubt I'd ever be able to be in a committed long term relationship with one. (though I am able to do that with men, well... one man inparticular; 6 months on the 17th)Quote:
Originally posted by IronPlant
M, correct me if I'm wrong, because this may be another female tnl poster, but you like both don't you? (if im speaking out of line just ingore this)
If so how do you feel about girls now that youve tried to get close to them, as compared to back before you gave a crap about all this physical relations shit? Are they any more crazzy now, than then?
(again, if im out of line, just ingore this)
and just being friends with chicks... well I even have problems with that. My only best chick friend... it was like dating a nuerotic, possesive, controlling bitcy girlfriend and never gettting any.
:\ they're all crazy. myself included.
I don't really fit into any of the voting brackets, my personal opinion is that most women are not worth the effort. The ones that are, however, are very worth the effort. I have yet to decide whether those two balance each other out...
She really is, no, seriously.Quote:
Originally posted by M
they're all crazy. myself included.
Worth it..but one thing..
Women are like hookers. The only difference between them is that hookers tell you flat out how much it will cost you.
Just look for the good in everyone, and try to help them bring it out. If they refuse to even try, or don't want to, then it's probably not the right choice. This is just this single male's opinion, one who often finds himself infatuated with just about any woman proper age around him that makes him feel happy for a moment.
But in my ideals, women are well worth it, and vice versa. Worth it being that while you have to put up with some hard times, there is no physical abuse going on, or anything extreme and that you feel content (In friendship) or even a greater feeling than content (For a romantic relationship) unless your just asshole who thinks the payoff is sex.
worth it.
Are you saying that all women want the sex like that, or are you insinutating something else?Quote:
Originally posted by bandit
Worth it..but one thing..
Women are like hookers. The only difference between them is that hookers tell you flat out how much it will cost you.
I honestly can't think of anything I'd rather be doing than hanging with a female I find attractive.
That said it's certainly not always worth it, but life carries no guarantees, and shallow neurotics don't always have it spelled out on their foreheads. Science should do something about that.
Besides, if you're 100% hetero, it's not like this is really a choice.
To be perfectly fair, for every woman whose prime motivation is money, there's a guy who's only really interested in a woman because of her looks. They usually end up together.Quote:
Originally posted by bandit
Worth it..but one thing..
Women are like hookers. The only difference between them is that hookers tell you flat out how much it will cost you.
So the hookers you go for aren't women?Quote:
Originally posted by bandit
Worth it..but one thing..
Women are like hookers. The only difference between them is that hookers tell you flat out how much it will cost you.
Women: impossible to understand. No one understands them, not even they themselves. They defy all definitions of logic. Have way too many issues that, once again, they themselves don't quite even understand.
And they're expensive to upkeep.
Surprised to see a thread like this from you, Mode. And I'm surprised I bothered to reply...
Well worth it. As irritating as women can be (from my perspective), I often find myself literally marvelling over women, and not simply how they look. They offer a stark contrast to men which, on the whole, is a good thing.
Like StriderKyo said, one of the greatest pleasures of being a man is hanging out with an attractive female friend. It makes you feel so powerful.
The downside to that is, she's just a friend, will never be more than that and you can't stop pining over her, no matter how impossible the odds.
And she knows it.
Women are awesome, though. I vote Worth It.
It really depends on who she is. For me it was worth it, but I think instead of classifying this along gender lines, it should be done more on an individual basis. Sure I like women, but not all women. Some are annoying and some are overzealous, etc. The same goes for guys. I'm sure the general consensus goes that men are attracted to women and women are attracted to men, for the most part anyways. Where it begins to blur is when you narrow the field and look at each person in relation to another. I could go on for hours about this, but I won't. I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now and I think it's been one of the most worthwhile times in my life.
BTW, I see a lot of mention about attractiveness. Does this mean physical or otherwise? Regardless, I believe that being with someone based simply on attraction is foolish. There are a lot of other factors that come into play. This is why so many marriages end in divorce.
SC
Women are great.
I like when they run into your house and flash you the cootare.
Sometimes I touch it quickly before they get their skirt back down.
Cootare!
worth it
I'm tempted to come up with some kind of analogy between women and hardcore vertical shooters, but I'll let it slide. Probably because it's early in the day and the creative juices aren't flowing yet. :)
I can't really answer that question with the answers given. I want to go with option 1 but I've got too many reservations about the sheer amount of crazy bullshit way too many women can pull. I admit I'm no prize catch myself, and in fact it's a mystery to me as to why women put up with all the crap they get from men.
There's a few billion words of diatribe in here but I'm guessing 99% of them can be found in the self-help section of your local bookstore. Final short-form verdict from me- the right ones are worth anything.
James
Per individual? It depends. That's all on who you are, and who she is.
In general? Worth it. Call me gullible, but I still believe in that whole 'love' thing. No, not the 'sex' thing. The love thing.
/me taps the mic
Hello?
I think this is more or less where my opinion falls. At least in theory.Quote:
Originally posted by Shakey
I don't really fit into any of the voting brackets, my personal opinion is that most women are not worth the effort. The ones that are, however, are very worth the effort. I have yet to decide whether those two balance each other out...
I hear that. Enough with this curing of deadly diseases nonsense -- let's make with the accurate genetic profiling!Quote:
Originally posted by StriderKyo
That said it's certainly not always worth it, but life carries no guarantees, and shallow neurotics don't always have it spelled out on their foreheads. Science should do something about that.
First, such a cop-out answer.Quote:
Per individual? It depends. That's all on who you are, and who she is.
Secondly, we're not working on a case-by-case basis, here. I would invite people to consider both the sum good and the total bad of what they've experienced (that is, not any wandering hopes for the future) and to render a verdict based on that. I know the issue isn't nearly so clean-cut or conveniently empirical, but give it a shot.
Once again, thanks for the input. I would be interested to hear more from anyone that voted "sack yourself," though.
then I wouldn't know enough from experience to say. Either no luck or bad luck, but I still believe it's worth it.
Basically, it's the same thing Shakey said; there are a lot who aren't worth it, but for those who are, it's well worth it. And that's just an idealized belief on my part.
I find that the one I'm with is the only one worthwhile. The rest are just a pain. :D
Some are worth it, some aren't. Its hard to find one that is...
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Originally posted by Despair
Well worth it. I love my wife and I'm a happy man :p
I knew this thread would get lame. Pussy is always worth it you homos, how much damn effort does it take to get a piece of trim or find a girl to like you......
*looks at the post your pictures thread
never mind.
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Originally posted by M
well... you are correct sir in your assumtion that I like both. I havent really ever dated any girls cus 1. usually the ones who I am mostly attracted to are... not datable or mentally unstable. 2. I have trust issues with females so I doubt I'd ever be able to be in a committed long term relationship with one. (though I am able to do that with men, well... one man inparticular; 6 months on the 17th)
and just being friends with chicks... well I even have problems with that. My only best chick friend... it was like dating a nuerotic, possesive, controlling bitcy girlfriend and never gettting any.
:\ they're all crazy. myself included.
lol, yeah, I agree but you said it first.
Women tend to be crazzy on so many levels. A lot of it has to do with personal self controle, trust issues, fear, and meeting their own and societies expectations. Combine any of those two and you have pure hell to deal with. She can't controle her self? Probably do something thats going to hurt you? Mad about something but won't tell? Probably don't trust you to talk about it. ect ect.
Men, quit trying to figure out girls, it does no good. You have to spend a lot of time with them to do it, and there only going to keap changing so your just going to keap on doing it. And the worst part is its not going to help you. Understanding a woman is like understanding that someone is about to drop a nuke on you, sure you know, but wtf you going to do about it? nothing
I've stated my purpose, though I'm annoyed by the "Pussy is worth it statement" sure it's a physical plus, but really I hope there is more to you than just your penis.
Choice number 1.
That challenge isn't me trying to understand women. It's women trying to understand me. :D
SC
desp, watch out, melf is after your wife:jest:Quote:
Originally posted by Melf
honestly it is possible to be straight and not care anymore about women, in the sense of actually wanting to be with one. i have had it good compared to a lot of people i know, some women have done some pretty messed up things to them, so i can see the bitterness making them overly cautious. fortunatly i found that if you wait long enough, you will actually meet a woman who has a tolerable level fo drama,and the feeling of being really connected with a nother person, even if it is not all the time, is something i would miss greatly.
women are aways worth it,any man who think otherwise is either gay, or a gay robot...
No, no, no..not I dont mean that. I mean they drain you of your money.Quote:
Originally posted by ChaoofNee
Are you saying that all women want the sex like that, or are you insinutating something else?
I dont go for hookers. I'm not like that. Read above to see what I meant.Quote:
Originally posted by Shakey
So the hookers you go for aren't women?
"He treats objects like women, man."
My thoughts exactly.Quote:
Originally posted by 88mph
Worth it...
Although it really depends on the girl.
*puffs on a pipe and reclines in rocker*Quote:
Originally posted by James
I'm tempted to come up with some kind of analogy between women and hardcore vertical shooters, but I'll let it slide. Probably because it's early in the day and the creative juices aren't flowing yet. :)
See son; a woman is like a fine game of Mars Matrix. They have Boobs and like chocolate.......
No....wait.....:sweat:
I hope that's sarcasm.Quote:
Originally posted by elBeardoAlwaysWins
I knew this thread would get lame. Pussy is always worth it you homos, how much damn effort does it take to get a piece of trim or find a girl to like you......
Actually, women are like Armed Police Batrider.
Yup.
All of these wimmen folk are like Dangun Feveron.:(
Hah, I agree with el Beardo - although my phrasing would be more gentle. What the hell is going on?Quote:
Originally posted by elBeardoAlwaysWins
I knew this thread would get lame. Pussy is always worth it you homos, how much damn effort does it take to get a piece of trim or find a girl to like you
Women? depends. I like myself just fine.
I usually prefer the company of a guy over a girl.....usually because I don't have a lot in common with most girls, and the ones i do have stuff in common with usually are lame. But sometimes there are those rare girls that rock your world. *sigh* *dreams of marrying Jenn yet again* lalalala
anyway, yeah. Depends, usually.
Ohh Satsuki, I'd love to see some footage of you enjoying the company of another girl.
:evil: :evil: :evil:
-Technosphile
Shameless. And what's with all the bi-girls on this board? Nothing wrong with it, I guess, but I've seen a total of three girls on this board and two of them are apparently bi. What's with that?Quote:
Originally posted by Technosphile
Ohh Satsuki, I'd love to see some footage of you enjoying the company of another girl.
:evil: :evil: :evil:
-Technosphile
SC
hella worth it! :D
SC, why does it matter? That's like bi-girls asking what's with all the average, straight guys around here? Ain't nothing wrong with it, and not worth questioning. ;)
They are all crazy, and I've got enough crazy by myself to deal with.
If they didn't have vagina's and breasts, I'd be tempted to say they aren't worth it.
...men, of course, not being even remotely worth the trouble.
It doesn't matter, really. But how many girls frequent this board? It'd be different if 100 girls came here all the time. I guess I was wondering if TNL somehow lured only bisexual women. And everything's worth questioning. ;)Quote:
Originally posted by bahn
hella worth it! :D
SC, why does it matter? That's like bi-girls asking what's with all the average, straight guys around here? Ain't nothing wrong with it, and not worth questioning. ;)
Marverous?:confused:Quote:
Originally posted by Mode7
Actually, women are like Armed Police Batrider.
Yup.
Lets ass kick together!:lol:
It's a wonder we don't convert them entirely.Quote:
I guess I was wondering if TNL somehow lured only bisexual women.
hohoho, well, I can't answer for the other wimmens around here, but I just feel like if i didn't find girls attractive, I'd be missing out. I mean, guh...they sure can be pretty....and boobs are so cool....
Guys are great too, of course! with your sexy hair and voices....
Well.....I like the best of both worlds!
So, your saying a man with boobers is you're ideal date? I'm sure one of the more hardcore gamers here could fill that bill.Quote:
Originally posted by Satsuki
hohoho, well, I can't answer for the other wimmens around here, but I just feel like if i didn't find girls attractive, I'd be missing out. I mean, guh...they sure can be pretty....and boobs are so cool....
Guys are great too, of course! with your sexy hair and voices....
Well.....I like the best of both worlds!
Hey this can't be entirely true as I am a girl, and I am straight. But, saying that - every girl has some bi-curiosity in her. It's more of a sexual thing than an emotional thing... I could never date a chick, but I could do stuff with one. (But I am still a straight girl)... this is the general mentality (even if some don't admit it) of the straight female...Quote:
It doesn't matter, really. But how many girls frequent this board? It'd be different if 100 girls came here all the time. I guess I was wondering if TNL somehow lured only bisexual women. And everything's worth questioning. ;)
Catscans show there to be some truth to that. The average male 's brain is only stimulated by actractive women, while the average female brain is stimualted by both male and females. It should also be noted in the same study they found that men are much harsher judges of actrativeness in the same people. Or maybe women just like ugly. You be the judge.
Well put.Quote:
Originally posted by spacecowboy
That challenge isn't me trying to understand women. It's women trying to understand me. :D
SC
Most guys don't realize that a good romp will straighten out a complicated female just as quickly as it would placate themselves.
aint that the truth. does that go for sisters as well?
aint that the truth. does that go for sisters as well?Quote:
Originally posted by IronPlant
Catscans show there to be some truth to that. The average male 's brain is only stimulated by actractive women, while the average female brain is stimualted by both male and females. It should also be noted in the same study they found that men are much harsher judges of actrativeness in the same people. Or maybe women just like ugly. You be the judge.
Very worth it, u know the saying, women, can't live with them, can't live without them
Thought it was: can't live with em, can't kill em.
More like asking what's with all the single guys around here...Quote:
Originally posted by bahn
hella worth it! :D
SC, why does it matter? That's like bi-girls asking what's with all the average, straight guys around here? Ain't nothing wrong with it, and not worth questioning. ;)
I knew someone who did that. Every woman he ever dated turned lesbian right after, except one, who now just hates men.Quote:
Originally posted by Mode7
It's a wonder we don't convert them entirely.
True though it may be, I really don't want that thought.Quote:
So, your saying a man with boobers is you're ideal date? I'm sure one of the more hardcore gamers here could fill that bill.
I seem to be part of the very small minority on this issue. Although I'm an optimist at heart, speaking from experience I'd have to say they're not worth it. And no, I'm definitely not gay. I've had a few too many bad experiences when it comes to having relationships with the fairer sex and while I haven't given up completely, I don't plan on wasting my time and energy anymore. It's really funny too, because I have a few close friends that just happen to be girls and would in no way even consider a relationship with them. Hmm, there's probably something very profound to be said here but sleep deprivation doesn't exactly help out the thought process.
Definitely.