A milestone every man tries to achieve....

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Originally posted by CynicalSphere
I don't know what the appeal of threesomes are, really, unless it's some stupid male bragging thing. They just seem like they're an awful lot of trouble (before, during, and after) with little payoff. There's not much you can do in a 2f/1m threesome that you can't do otherwise, unless you're some weirdo that has more than one dick.

One lover with an open mind and a sense of adventure (although all that translates to is "willing to do something more than just lay there") is all I need to enjoy sex. I'm not much into polygamy. :P

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The point is you get to nail two chicks instead of one. Males inherently dig that. More is better.

Those of you who think you need two sets of genitals to pleasure two women simultaneously should definitely stay away from threesomes. Maybe even twosomes. :)

Seriously, most people I have run across should stay away from indulging multiple sex partners at the same time. However, if you have three people who enjoy sex and have mature attitudes about their bodies and their emotions and see sex as pleasure as opposed to conquest, there's no reason to automatically write it off. All parties should be honest with themselves and respectful of everyone's feelings. I separate sex from emotion, but my wife sees them as intertwined, so I have no overriding desire to bring someone else in. She plays around with the idea and drops little hints, but I know she would see bringing a third person in as a betrayal of trust and intimacy, so I never pursue it.

Simply put, if my wife would have a problem with it, I am not interested. Just like if my wife had a religious objection to pork, I would not cook bacon in the morning and try to sell her on the aroma.

Three-ways have been big among a certain group of my acquaintances since they were teens, and I have always refused to be a participant - much like I have refused to smoke marijuana. Always, always place logic above what your penis or your peers tell you feels good.

hell yeah dude, doing two chicks at once ownz!

Hehe.

Nah, unless you have absolutely no concern for either of the people in the threesome and you don't have a significant other. Stay away from a threesome if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend that you even remotely care about and want to have a relationship with.

I'm sorry to say that I may not have had the best opinion of the fidelity of the general male populace, but I stand somewhat corrected after reading this thread...
Most of you understand the importance of having/being involved with someone else and you override what some women jokingly call,"The Other brain," and the jerk tendency to want to have had as many women as possible and brag about it. Rock on TNL!

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Originally posted by Nick
Those of you who think you need two sets of genitals to pleasure two women simultaneously should definitely stay away from threesomes. Maybe even twosomes. :)

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If that's a stab towards me, of course I know that you don't need two sets of genitals to pleasure two women at once. I was just making a sarcastic joke. :P

But I agree wholeheartedly with the rest of the post.

wow, i wish i had a girlfriend...

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Originally posted by Scorp23
wow, i wish i had a girlfriend...

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So, go get one.

Unless you and your girlfriend work in the porno industry I would say just be happy with two sets of genitalia. I guess some weird people make it work, what with all those swinger clubs and all that other stuff. It wouldn't work for me, and that seems the majority of opinion. However, it is a nice thing to watch on tape with your girlfriend.

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Originally posted by Nick
Those of you who think you need two sets of genitals to pleasure two women simultaneously should definitely stay away from threesomes. Maybe even twosomes. :)

Seriously, most people I have run across should stay away from indulging multiple sex partners at the same time. However, if you have three people who enjoy sex and have mature attitudes about their bodies and their emotions and see sex as pleasure as opposed to conquest, there's no reason to automatically write it off. All parties should be honest with themselves and respectful of everyone's feelings. I separate sex from emotion, but my wife sees them as intertwined, so I have no overriding desire to bring someone else in. She plays around with the idea and drops little hints, but I know she would see bringing a third person in as a betrayal of trust and intimacy, so I never pursue it.

Simply put, if my wife would have a problem with it, I am not interested. Just like if my wife had a religious objection to pork, I would not cook bacon in the morning and try to sell her on the aroma.

Three-ways have been big among a certain group of my acquaintances since they were teens, and I have always refused to be a participant - much like I have refused to smoke marijuana. Always, always place logic above what your penis or your peers tell you feels good.

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Thats deep man.


I personally would not have an objection to it, however I would never have it planned out. Something like that would not work for me, and I doubt as well for most other people either, unless there was a level of spontinaity to it.

I have slept in between two women before and the worst that happened was I woke up holding one of their chests. But from having done that I can honestly say it was the most unerotic experience ever. If we were all falling over eachother and suddenly something started with a kiss, or grab, or an inappropriate touch and we rode it out, that would have been appealing.

I personally subscribe to the philosophy that if you have to talk about it before hand, you shouldn't do it, because you've probably (because it doesn't apply to all things, just most things) just jumped the shark.

Thats my two cents anyway.

Trust me:

3-somes are overrated, and lots of stress to ensure that not only one, but two gals are satisfied. Not worth the stress at all.

Actually, sex in general is WAY overrated...