Originally Posted by ssbomberman
The way I see it girls hit on you more when you are with someone...because of your overall disposition. You are generally more confident and here's the real thing -- you aren't thinking about banging the girl's brains out (or maybe you are!?) because you already have someone. This leads to actual real conversations that can really show a girl, wow, he's a guy but he isn't a dick like all the other guys I've met. So yeah, I don't think most guys are capable of doing this when they are single...it's just too hard to keep the physical stuff out of the mind and just relax and get to know her...it's like we have banners on our forheads that say I am single and not really paying attention to you because I want to have insane amounts of sex with you right now...and they know it...and we're screwed...
There is also the angle that for me for instance, I am married and my wife is cute as hell (little red head) and I am dorky as hell, so maybe girls take a look at me and say WTF, he's a dork but she's cute as hell WTF is going on here...and then they want to know what I have to offer my wife and other females in general...but really I do have nothing to offer...so yeah...
And for all you who say, I don't know I'm being hit on, I'm too oblivious...first off I can't believe this because as a guy...all it takes is eye contact...most guys think this too...all my female friends have a hell of a lot of problems dealing with guys they make eye contact with who think they are interested...men are just dumb as hell...my wife makes eye contact with all kinds of freaking guys and it's fun to see the way they perk up when she does...ha ha...I mean they'll freaking say "How you doin" to her for simply looking at them...
But if this is acutally true and you have no way of telling if someone is interested -- this is actually a good thing because then you don't have to worry about having your mind all messed up thinking whether the girl is hitting on you or not...and then you can impress her with a decent conversation and whatnot...it might lead to something that lasts...