It is wrong. It's not fashionable in our society to admit sex, even casual sex, is a big deal. But it is. To do it with someone who's young is way wrong. What will she think when she's older? She may not care, but she also may really regret it. I want no part in that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nomi
I was in a situation a few years ago where I had met this wonderful girl over the net. We spent several night staying up all night talking, we just clicked. She actually lived in the same town as me, but we just chatted for a while. Problem is, she was 15 and I was...damn what was I? 21? 22? Something like that.
Anyway, we did actually see each other a few times. She was absolutely beautiful. She had a hard and not very happy life, and it seemed that I brought out some good feelings in her that for the most part lays dormant. Despite being totally different, it was like putting two pieces of a puzzle together.
Then came a night where we were talking... she wanted to meet me again. Down the road from her house, at 1 oclock in the morning? What for? Well, I know exactly why. I wanted to, she wanted to, the moon and stars had lined up perfectly...
I just walked away.
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Originally Posted by GohanX
so what did she want to do? anal on the corner!? c'mon dude.....you CAN'T just walk away!
Ha. My ex-fiancee's little sister (15 years old) thrice tried to get me to sleep with her. Turning her down was lots of fun because I enjoy hurting little girls' feelings :evil:
Seriously, though, she turned out to be quite skilled at ruining her life. She is barely 18 now and already pregnant. Worst part is that her parents are ultra-conservative and won't let her abort the thing.
Thank goodness I didn't marry into that family...
First, it is wrong by our current American/Western society. That doesn't make it "wrong" to everybody, and that doesn't mean that it has been "wrong" since the day man first walked this Earth. I'm not saying that I support it or anything, but just because we currently don't agree with it doesn't make it a cold hard fact that it is wrong.Quote:
Originally Posted by lithium
Second, sex is a big deal to you. Sex is a big deal to many people. But, again, just because you're saying that sex is a big deal doesn't make it true for everybody, and doesn't make it a fact.
It's as wrong as you make it.
I had known my one teenage fling for over a year and was friends with her mom. She worked the sex angle for MONTHS, and I steadfastly refused. After awhile her mom said something about it and we talked. She gave the emphatic green light. I analyzed the situation and came to the conclusion that both of these women had their heads screwed on straight and were some of the more remarkable ladies I had ever met.
So the next time the young lady tried to seduce me, I let her. From then on we were honest with each other and maintained level headed attitudes about the whole thing. We had good times. She eventually got tired of me being out of town all the time (though she believed that i was faithful, and I was) so we talked about that and split up in a peaceful and mature manner with no negative drama whatsoever.
As I mentioned, she has grown to be an amazing adult that I admire even though she's six years younger than I. She's happily married to a good man, has a job that most women would kill for and is just generally living the good life. I can't see how anything we did was wrong, and I'm sure she feels the same way.
It's basically like burgundy said. If you're for real then you're doing any woman that wants sex a favor by giving it to her, regardless of age. If she wants it, she'll get it from someone, even if he drives a tow truck and eats her pussy with a pinch of Skoal between his cheek and gum. Hell, I'd save every teenage girl on the planet from that, if I only could.
Pa
I'm going to say the same thing here I said in the drugs thread quite a while ago: the law and your personal morality are two very different things... one changes depending on something as ridiculous as politically-argued as borders, while one should remain constant because it is what you believe and what you feel is right.
You know what's right and what's wrong, inside.
And if banging 13 year old girls is wrong, I don't wanna be right.
Is there anything that cliche can't do?