Would you have consensual sex with a minor, assuming you'd never get caught?

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Originally Posted by Korian

Aren't men still considered pedos when they have sex with
minors even if it's consensual?

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Pedophilia is an unnatural attraction to children. Fully developed teenage women aren't children from a physical standpoint so there isn't anything unusual about a man who is attracted to them.

Way late to the convo but to add to it, I have before (she was 17 and I was 18). I didn't think the age was a big deal. Would I do it again now that I am 20? Uh... if she looked already than 17 I would.

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Originally Posted by PaCrappa

Mr K, what I meant was that if I felt it was necessary and I had the time to create a meaningful relationship with a teenage girl(sexual or not) that would help her to feel good about herself and save her from whatever issues are causing her to engage in reckless sexual behavior I would. If you read my accounts of the one fling with a minor that I did have, surely you see that's what I did then. I have no special interest in teenage girls and if one took a special interest in me, I'd most likely do what I did before and refuse adamantly. If extenuating circumstances presented themselves, I'd reevaluate and make the responsible decision. I'm not looking for cheap underage sex that is easily thrown away.

At the moment I'd say I have very little time to engage in a meaningful relationship with anyone and therefore have limited my romance to relatively short lived (like maybe a week) sexual liaisons with women that are roughly my own age. I prefer to associate with women my own age whether my relationships be sexual or not.

Please don't read any bizarre perverted shit into my open mindedness.

Pa

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I realized all of that, I was just being silly.

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Originally Posted by Nomi

My father's girlfriend had her first child a few days after her seventeenth birthday, if I recall (from her previous marriage; my father is not a sicko). She had two more children in a few years. She's barely thirty now, a good fourteen years younger than my father.

She go involved with her ex- when she was fifteen, and it ended up destroying her life for the most part. A decade and a half later she's just getting away from the control-freak and rebuilding things (going to college and such).

Any girl/young woman should know better than to let this happen. It wasn't an accident, and was a very, very poor decision largely on her part. She regrets being involved with that guy more than anything, and she stresses it to me very often. We hardly talk, but she's very adamant about me understanding that serious sex at fifteen is a terrible idea, especially with an older guy.

I agree whole-heartedly.

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Responsiblity for some people is a lifetime away at that age. Honestly though, a serious relationship at that age is a scary prospect.

My ex, I was 15 she was 14 when we started dating, turned into an emotional mess, when sex became all that relationship was built on, and the slow realization that I simply was not ready for it, and she was only using it as a control mechanism. How screwed up was it?

To this day I don't know if she was ever pregnant with my child.

I just couldn't tell you if I wanted too, because being pregnant was something she just threw out there every time I thought of leaving.


Anyway the moral of the story is, nowadays she has a kid (it ain't mine), is way to self-centered to really care about it, and is in the most dysfunctional relationship I've ever seen.

Or in laymans terms,

Don't take this shit lightly, if you yourself are not responsible enough to take a pill every day, or wear condom everytime, your probably better off ignoring sex till you are. Cause as screwed up as she made me for the year after, she'll be this way for the rest of her life.

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Originally Posted by PaCrappa

Mr K, what I meant was that if I felt it was necessary and I had the time to create a meaningful relationship with a teenage girl(sexual or not) that would help her to feel good about herself and save her from whatever issues are causing her to engage in reckless sexual behavior I would. If you read my accounts of the one fling with a minor that I did have, surely you see that's what I did then. I have no special interest in teenage girls and if one took a special interest in me, I'd most likely do what I did before and refuse adamantly. If extenuating circumstances presented themselves, I'd reevaluate and make the responsible decision. I'm not looking for cheap underage sex that is easily thrown away.

At the moment I'd say I have very little time to engage in a meaningful relationship with anyone and therefore have limited my romance to relatively short lived (like maybe a week) sexual liaisons with women that are roughly my own age. I prefer to associate with women my own age whether my relationships be sexual or not.

Please don't read any bizarre perverted shit into my open mindedness.

Pa

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That is a bizarre story though.


I think in a good way, but its bizzarre.

People have irresponsible attiitudes towards sex have them because they're irresponsible, not because they had sex.

Idiots are idiots whether they're fucked or not.

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Originally Posted by burgundy

People have irresponsible attiitudes towards sex have them because they're irresponsible, not because they had sex.

Idiots are idiots whether they're fucked or not.

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K, I agree with that, as I've said in other posts, but you can be too young to handle it. The both of us were. But I have matured and she has not, and yes I am fairly convinced that the early sex experiences (yes before me I was only her second), had shaped her to not care about sex.

Though the last thing you said is gold.

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Originally Posted by burgundy

People have irresponsible attiitudes towards sex have them because they're irresponsible, not because they had sex.

Idiots are idiots whether they're fucked or not.

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*being fucked

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Originally Posted by Hot Like Wasabi

Way late to the convo but to add to it, I have before (she was 17 and I was 18). I didn't think the age was a big deal. Would I do it again now that I am 20? Uh... if she looked already than 17 I would.

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I really wish people would stop with this. If you're 18, and she's 17, YOU'RE NOT ROBBING THE FREAKIN' CRADLE FOLKS!!!

If she's pre-18, but you're only a few years different in age, please don't speak up like you were doing something "dangerous" or whatnot.

yeah people, you are totally killing shidoshi's bragging rights. ;)

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Originally Posted by shidoshi

I really wish people would stop with this. If you're 18, and she's 17, YOU'RE NOT ROBBING THE FREAKIN' CRADLE FOLKS!!!

If she's pre-18, but you're only a few years different in age, please don't speak up like you were doing something "dangerous" or whatnot.

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Calm down dude. The thread says "Would you have consensual sex with a minor, assuming you'd never get caught?" not "Would you have consensual sex with a minor, assuming you'd never get caught? oh and if you were like 10 years older than her"

It's not my fault I'm not 30 yet and still wanting to bang minors.