It sounds like women in japan just have unrealistic expectations of western men.
The girl in the interview seemed to have gotten her idea of the western man from silly old tv shows and fairy tales.
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It sounds like women in japan just have unrealistic expectations of western men.
The girl in the interview seemed to have gotten her idea of the western man from silly old tv shows and fairy tales.
Just thought id throw a few points in so the statistics dont get totally skewed. In most cases (according to this thread) this white boy has won the lotto:
I have a Japanese Woman born and raised
She is Hot
She is not a porno star but i give it to her like one
I am not creepalicious
She doesnt cry during or after unless i donkey punch her, lolz
She is great in bed and doesnt just lay there, a firecracker I tell ya
I like brunettes just thought id throw that in
She is very outgoing, not shy at all
She has no logic but what women does anywhere in the world?
Since im not asian, I am massive in her eyes ;)
Despite popular belief her poontang is not sideways
Everything DNG has said, especially the last part, is a bold-faced lie told over the internets.
I'm moving over there in a couple months, and between that article and this video, my expectations are probably too high.
Haha, awesome.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaneda
Japanese women just want to suck huge cocks, this is nothing new.
I think, really, anything. A lot of Japanese guys kind of come off as cold, and relationships between Japanese people often seemed to me more like "parterships" than actual romances. The guy works and brings home the money, the woman takes care of the home and finances, and they continue along not because of love, but because it makes economic and future sense.Quote:
Originally Posted by IronPlant
Of course, that's not the hard truth for everything. But let me give you an example: my ex-girlfriend's parents slept in separate rooms, my current girlfriend's parents sleep in separate rooms, my Japanese homestay family's parents sleep in separate rooms. That's one small example of how different things can be over there. Another is that it seems to be very common for Japanese men to not wear their wedding rings, with their wives having full knowledge of that. I saw a lot of cases where I saw little to no "romance" between couples over there - I saw examples or romance of course, but far, far fewer.
Or, here's another - I've always been taught to hold a door open for a woman. So, I'd be out doing stuff with my female Japanese friends, I'd open the door for them, and that would totally blow them away. They aren't used to even those little things from Japanese men, nevermind a lot of the big stuff.
My girlfriend hasn't been shy at all about saying that she hates the idea of dating a Japanese guy.
One thing you have to remember is that Japan, as a society, teaches you not to be a bother, especially to people you don't know, and not to stand out. A lot of Japanese people are simply too shy to try to make that initial contact.Quote:
Originally Posted by dakidski
Even so, when I lived over there, I probably had 20+ female Japanese friends I talked to on a regular basis, and I'd say at least 1/3rd of them were girls who made the first move towards me. Then, other times, I'd approach girls that I happened to meet on the street, and almost always they were very friendly and approachable, even with my broke-ass Japanese. One thing that I learned is that a lot of Japanese people are eager to talk to foreigners, since they aren't used to meeting them, so if you simply approach them first, they really open up.
This is 100% true.Quote:
Originally Posted by StriderKyo
What they are like and how they treat women are two totally different things. Japanese men, for the most part, are total sissies, which comes in no small part from their mothers totally babying them. (Japanese mothers are terrible about keeping their kids in line.)Quote:
Originally Posted by dakidski
However, because they know Japanese girls will take it, they can then act tough towards them. During my most recent trip, my girlfriend's sister's husband slapped her around a bit. It wasn't the first time, and even though she hated that he did it, she still stayed with him. That kind of thing is very typical in Japan, unfortunately. Next time I saw the guy, it took everything I had not to kick his ass. (And trust me, I'm not the kind of guy who can usually do much ass kicking.)
got to this thread late, so true.Quote:
Originally Posted by Josh
and that video link. i thought i read somewhere that showing pubic hair on tv in japan was like taboo or something but i swear i saw honda muff. i could totally be making this up though.
I think the problem is that Japanese guys like to be dominant where they can't, which isn't a lot of places, so when they have sex with a girl, they want to feel like they are totally in control. Hell, look at Japanese porn - 95% of it has the girl acting like she doesn't want to have sex. So, I think Japanese culture doesn't empower the girl to think that she's an equal part in it, and can enjoy it as much as the guy can. So, as a result of that, I think Japanese girls end up thinking that they are just supposed to be a plaything for the guy, lay there and take whatever he wants to give, or do what he asks, and not to initiate anything on her own.Quote:
Originally Posted by Schlep
Are you going to school there or?Quote:
Originally Posted by Kaneda