I'd go off on the whole money thing, but I don't feel like it atm.
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I'd go off on the whole money thing, but I don't feel like it atm.
You're certainly not shy about bringing it up / whining about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttcheeks
I'm normally not the one who brings it up.
Says a dude who's named after a cartoon dinosaur.Quote:
Originally Posted by Yoshi
This is the absolute worst insult ever posted on TNL.Quote:
Originally Posted by Beefy Hits
I'd say you could do better, but I know you can't.
Josh can be such an asshole.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clownporn
K I'll tell you.
And I won't sugar coat it nor will I stretch it out for you or give you step by step help on it. Mostly because It wouldn't help you. A lot of people have never experienced that (I haven't either had to deal with the physical sight of such a thing, though I have absorbed something that may or may not quantify being worse than that).
The trick is,
Keep breathing.
Steadily. With the pulse going through your veins, time your breaths, and remember (though dont' cling to) the life that you have that has nothing to do with her. Do not fall for the trap. Do not ask for a reason (because no reason will ever justify it in your mind, though if you do need to get one, no one should or has any right to fault you for it).
You are a deer in the headlights no matter what the feeling or advice is to you. Thats where you wind up at the end. Twitching and unsteady, no matter how much you can front it. There will be a part of you that will weigh it against everything that you know has happened to the people you know, and doing such a thing will only make you more angry, because chances are, most of the people you know have never experienced such a thing.
The healing comes when you consistently begin to realize two things. #1. There is no justification for it, and any that you bother to absorb will only start you down the road of blaming yourself. #2 No action she took or takes from the moment of discovery, has any right affecting any part of your life, no matter how much it actually does.
Realizing #2 is far more important for it lets you replace the sadness with a lot of other emotions until it finally normalizes you and you can hold them all at once again. Do not let the memory of it fade so quickly that you open up to her again, do not do that. You will only end up resenting and exacting revenge on her, whether it was your intention to do so or not. Subconciously, what she offers will never make you forget what happened, and how you behave because of this will never let her forget what happened.
Thats all I got right now.
Hell no, if it was Josh, I would have just walked over and had him tag me in.Quote:
Originally Posted by Saint of Killers
How do you bounce back from this?
Hookers and coke.
Men today are just way too sappy. Your grand daddy would've grabbed the girl by her ear and kicked her out of the apartment right then and there and been out on the town for a new one the same night. Today you have men telling others to write a journal about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brisco Bold