How do I bounce back from this?

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Originally Posted by Dolemite

How long were you dating the girl, and what happened with you and your friend? Did you beat the shit out of him? Did he even try to apologize?

Like Kenny said on Oz, "Women ain't nuttin but bitches!!"

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I was dating that bitch for about a year and a half. With my "friend", it was really tricky and shitty, becuase being a best friend of mine, he also hung out with almost all of the exact people I did, which made it difficult at best. No, I didn't beat the shit out of him, but I had it in my mind many times. I was plotting some evil shit against this guy, but my better judgement took over and told me that collapsing this guys kneecaps with a baseball bat wouldn't change anything and would just get me thrown in jail. He apologized many times over, and I essentially accepted his apology at face value; face value being that it was from a guy who I could trust about as far as I can throw.

Kenny Wangler knows what's up. In a repercussionless world maybe I would have done what he did to his girl and his boy, but alas, we don't live in such a world.

Damn, TNL to the rescue, for real.

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Originally Posted by omfgninjas in iraq

It's not that you're not good enough, it's just that sometimes people plain aren't compatible. Maybe you've also had the thoughts like "yeah, she really isn't the one" but you didn't act on it because she's all you have right now and you didn't want to lose it.

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I did actually have this thought. So you hit the nail on the head. I didnt think we would be together for years, get married, etc. , but we had fun hanging out, and she wasnt a total idiot so she was nice to talk to. Not that I need it, but it is always nice to have someone in your life who you think gives a shit about it.

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Originally Posted by omfgninjas in iraq

I don't know how you got so attached in three months, but don't do it again.

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It wont, and the wall is officially up. I dont know either how I got so attached. We've been friends for a little while (more than a year) so maybe that's why I was so pissed and shocked at her wanting to do me psychological (and possibly physical with the whole prison thing) harm. Like I said, I didnt gush at her and "love" her. We "adored" each other. L word is always too strong, I think. I reserve that one for people who have earned it in my life. And there are few... I Love you TNL <3
But, yeah, good advice, man.

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Originally Posted by Trialsword

Jetman, I'm really sorry to hear this. Things apparently aren't going well for you at the moment, but if it's anything we both know it's that time heals all. In the interim, maybe try starting a hobby

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Thanks, Trial. Yeah, I'm going to catch up on my console gaming over the summer, join the TNL WoW crew again, and start hitting the gym here with a pal of mine. Ill spare TNL from posting pics of my pasty white pecs, in the Workout thread though. You guys dont need to see that.

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Originally Posted by He who shall never be named Hubbitron

Jetman- You have lived my worst fear. It's the worst thing a girl could ever do to a guy. Don't let it ruin your ability to have relationships in the future since you did nothing wrong. Sorry man.

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Thanks, bro. Almost every friend I have said this was their worst fear too. It never was mine until now. Just never thought it would happen to me. I'm too cool and nice for it. Guess I was horribly wrong though....

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Originally Posted by Nash

This is my line of thought here. I never understood getting mad at the other person since he/she might not have known. The cheating significant other should be the focus of your anger.

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He knew my ex girl had a man - me. And he sent dirty texts to her (which shows how much of a slut she was for still associating with the guy). In a different time and place without lawyers and the law, he would get hurt really bad by me.

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Originally Posted by Beefy Hits

I'd start keeping a journal

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Eh, Journal idea just not for me, thanks though. I can and have sorted this out in my head. I dont need proof out there to exist that I was hurt by a woman once. I'd probably just fill it up with - "FUCK WHAT A FUCKING BITCH - FUCK SHIT COCK" or draw stick figures of me breaking her in half or something which would be a waste of paper.

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Originally Posted by Dolemite

BTW, if you have nekkid pics of her or any kind of embarrassing or personal info, now's the time to start posting it on the net and sending the links to her family

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Didnt have any nekid pics, but shredded what I had, including letters she wrote to me proclaiming how awesome I was, how much she loved to be around me,etc. This freaked me out because she did this letter thing our first week of dating,and asked me if I thought it was weird - I said "yeah, a little." which started off our first fight. I think I might have been the nicest boyfriend she's ever (and will ever) had given her past, but whatever.

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Originally Posted by Dolemite

Wow, first the stinky twat girl, now this. Jetman, my friend, perhaps women aren't for you. Maybe you should try being gay for a while and see how that works out.

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:lol: Dolemite are you propositioning me? ~ <3 ~


x2Y ,Haoh, Clownporn (haha, wtf, Myke :lol: ) , I'm sorry you guys had to deal with something similar if not worse than I did. Thanks for sharing it. Makes me feel a little better knowing that, I'm not the only one who has seen some fucked up shit and came out of it.

I didnt completely drink myself into oblivion or hit heavy drugs. I drank till I puked black on Saturday night (not a good sign- good bye liver), smoked a couple of Jays, drank more on Sunday, smoked a couple more Jays, drank some more last night (and Sunday night), surprise, I think I smoked some more, dont rememberso uh, yeah, par for the course and I did feel better after puking Saturday. Felt like I needed to since seeing what I did.

I think I am pretty much over the situation though. I just consider her one sadistic, fucked up, and twisted step in making me a stronger person. When I bounce back from this and still show character than I think that makes me a better person,like that saying goes, "whatever doesnt kill you....". Just one of those life things that happens to some of us really unlucky ones. I think what goes around comes around though too, that Karma's a bitch, so this slut will get hers. Not going to rat her out, gave her key back to one of her friends, and am going to let her own shitty life fuck her over.

This is a college town and their are other fish out here, my future rommates are fraternity guys, heard my situation, and introduced me to more pussy and alcohol than a guy should be able to handle. Talked for hours last night with one girl they set me up with who has been cheated on (and walked in on it - Twice), she may be a bit out of my league though - supermodel levels of hot - got her number though and I wouldnt forgive myself if I didnt call her, eventually.

So yeah, trying to bounce back, and get back on the horse, with a little more knowledge, and wisdom on my side.Again,thanks for all of the advice guys. I have a lot more respect than you'll ever know for all of you who replied here or PM'ed me.

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Originally Posted by innova

so the other night i was fucking this girl and then this guy walked in......

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lols

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Originally Posted by Clownporn

Kenny Wangler knows what's up. In a repercussionless world maybe I would have done what he did to his girl and his boy, but alas, we don't live in such a world.

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That was a good episode.

And shit, it's not Kenny! It's Bricks! Get that shit right!

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Originally Posted by Jetman

:lol: Dolemite are you propositioning me? ~ <3 ~

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I see the very prospect cheered you up. :)

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Originally Posted by Jetman

...When I bounce back from this and still show character than I think that makes me a better person,like that saying goes, "whatever doesnt kill you....". Just one of those life things that happens to some of us really unlucky ones. I think what goes around comes around though too, that Karma's a bitch, so this slut will get hers. Not going to rat her out, gave her key back to one of her friends, and am going to let her own shitty life fuck her over.

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Good for you, you don't need to stoop to her level. Best to just actively forget her existence and erase her from your mind. I bet that she will call you in the next week or so and "want to talk". Don't give this slut any chance, don't even pick up the phone. If you have mutual friends, tell them that she is dead to you and that is dead. Attention whor*s like her will be devastated for not getting the "desired" effect.

I walked in my bestfriend making out with my girlfriend once. Sucked.

Damn, too many of these stories are surfacing. Where is the sense of decency?

lol @ Bricks dole. That WAS an awesome episode. The funniest part, I can't remember if it's the same ep. but when he comes back from the funeral and started laughing with the other homies at how he was acting all teary eyed over it when he was the one who ordered the hit. Classic.

Yeah, that was the same episode. Good shit.

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Originally Posted by kingoffighters

I bet that she will call you in the next week or so and "want to talk". Don't give this slut any chance, don't even pick up the phone.

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I saw a message from her on my phone this morning. It was all, "Jeff, I'm sorry..."and then I just deleted it fast. Part of me kind of wanted to hear what she had to say, but then my common sense took over quick like.

I would've listened just for a good laugh.

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Originally Posted by Jetman

I saw a message from her on my phone this morning. It was all, "Jeff, I'm sorry..."and then I just deleted it fast. Part of me kind of wanted to hear what she had to say, but then my common sense took over quick like.

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Very wise move. People that pull this kind of shit, FEED on drama, they create it and live for it. By even reacting to the slut, you'd be giving her exactly what she wants, a big dramatic emotional outburst. If you completely ignore her and the entire situation, act like you couldn't care less that she's a fucking ho, it will eat her up.