Take a look at this, this article is pretty interesting
Bosses' 10 biggest sins
Survey finds that managers who take the buddy-buddy approach and micromanage are top offenders.
NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- If you're reading this at work, and your boss walks by, you have two choices: Hide the screen (now would really be best), or exclaim loudly that you can't believe how lucky you are to work for someone who defies every awful boss stereotype there is.
Point out, for instance, that nothing about your manager's leadership style shows up in the following list of top 10 "boss sins" identified in a survey of 900-plus employees by HR consulting firm Development Dimensions International and Badbossology.com.
How good a boss are you? A good manager understands how employees feel about their jobs. You may think you understand what your workers want, but do you really know what motivates them?
Here are the bad things (my opinon of myself in here)
ries too hard to be everyone's friend (no)
Micromanages (guilty)
Ignores conflict (guilty)
Arrogant (who me?)
Wishy-washy (No)
Impulsive (to a fault)
Unable to delegate (no)
Impatient (yup)
Stubborn (no)
Unprofessional (no)
Then emphasize how many of the traits on the surveyed employees' "wish" list that your boss does possess:
Trust in one's employees (you have to do this)
Honesty/authenticity (see above)
Great team-building skills (that's what you delegate for)
Effective coaching skills (see above)
The ability to say "no" (easy)
A broader perspective (harder then it sounds)
Patience (no)
Decision-making skills (yes)
If your manager is a woman, skip the part about how 70 percent of respondents between the ages of 34 and 45 said they'd prefer to work for a man.
Anywho, how does your boss compare to me? I think this would be educational.
Also, I cut this article, if you wan to see the full write up, go here:
http://money.cnn.com/2006/10/16/pf/b...ion=2006101613

