What constitutes as a good or bad date, get together, or first meeting? Personally, that is. Unless one of you knows the concrete formula for these things... =p
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What constitutes as a good or bad date, get together, or first meeting? Personally, that is. Unless one of you knows the concrete formula for these things... =p
If you get the booty: good
If you don't get the booty: bad
:D
well look at it this way
if you walk away and both people were intrigued by the other person and left wanting to some day spend more time with the other person it was a good one
if oen of you walks away despising or hating the other person thats a bad one
What Johnpv really meant was if you get the booty, it was a good meeting.Quote:
Originally posted by Johnpv
well look at it this way
if you walk away and both people were intrigued by the other person and left wanting to some day spend more time with the other person it was a good one
if oen of you walks away despising or hating the other person thats a bad one
Booty on the first date is bad, bad, bad. But I suspect Hero knows that already.
It's kind of like professional wrestling: there's "good heat" (wrestling term) and "bad heat." Sometimes you may come away from a date thinking the other person dislikes you and never wants to see you socially ever again, but remember, the guys who are booed the loudest sell just as many tickets as the guys who are cheered the loudest.
If the date is memorable, you may generally consider it a success - within reasonable limits. I am not saying you should crash her car or call her granny an old hag just to stay in her thoughts. What I am advising is to be comfortable and spontaneous.
The first time I went out with my future wife, she didn't want to talk about herself so we discussed politics, religion, and me (what a surprise, huh?). She later told me that she found me arrogant and rather insufferable. She even thought to herself that she never wanted to see me again.
Most guys would have fallen all over themselves trying to sweet talk her and impress her. I presented myself as I was. Some of the things I said surprised her, but she took them with her and thought about them until our next meeting.
Don't be boring. Don't be hyper. Don't be overly nice. Don't be a jerk. If you think about the date a lot later on, and you suspect she is, too, call it good. Most dates are between boring people and consist of meaningless fluff conversations. Bring something different to the table. Namely, realism. Every other guy is sweet and good-natured when dating a beautiful woman, but there is only one you, with all your personality traits and quirks. Don't be a player and don't play a role. If you are forced to be someone else for the whole evening, no matter how well you think it went, your date was a failure.
Oh, and the more laughs you heard - I'm talking deep, genuine, heartfelt laughs - the better.
See Nick that is exactly what I'm talking about!Quote:
Originally posted by Nick
Booty on the first date is bad, bad, bad. Bad like: DANG that girl is a FREAK in the sack!!!
:D
one track mind folks one track mind and thats why youll always be a little bia biaQuote:
Originally posted by Kidnemo
What Johnpv really meant was if you get the booty, it was a good meeting.
Lmfao, whatever you little bea!Quote:
Originally posted by Johnpv
one track mind folks one track mind and thats why youll always be a little bia bia
*TSK TSK* see that folks thats self delusion in action
hero stay far away form that hes jsut a little bia bia :P
Why you acting like a...like a...