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Said the same thing in the other thread and this fucking confirms it even more. I am so happy I chose not to ball & chain myself under some false pretense of needing love and companionship to make my life complete.
Fellow men of tnl, Treat your cocks with the respect they deserve. Don't soil them inside a crazys bitches' pussy...
The current girl is a rock. She's got more character, principles, and kindness than any person I've ever met and it isn't a facade. Likes sci-fi, fantasy, video games, hates jewelry, materialism, etc... Couldn't ask for much more.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttcheeks
Problem is, for the next 2-3 years she's in grad school in NYC and it's going to be very difficult for us to spend any time at all together, given my work schedule and visitation coupled with her work/school routine. It's going to be very, very tough not to wander. We'll see...
The real question is are you going to have the same goals after she finishes school? That'll be the ultimate deal breaker and you can save your time now if you both can't compromise and work for that same dream.
The real question is if I'm going to be able to deal with barely seeing her for three years. I'll worry about what comes after that later.
But if it's going to be tough not to wander, doesn't that say something?Quote:
Originally Posted by haohmaru
Yeah, but I've done the celibate thing once and I don't feel like doing it again. Part of me thinks it's unreasonable to wait for someone for three years, especially given how much life can change over a time period that's that long. I think we both should date other people if we want to and revisit this thing down the road, but she strongly disagrees.Quote:
Originally Posted by torgo
And that's all perfectly fine and natural. But at the same time it seems to support the idea that long term relationships just aren't realistic.Quote:
Originally Posted by haohmaru
LTR's are okay. LTRLDR's suck.
My brother had a nasty nasty divorce with his wife that went on for 4+ years. I think it is similar to Haoh's story, no sex after the kid thing and my bro found someone to give him that. :) So he had a mistress and she went nutzoid (calling cops, faking suicide attempts by throwing herself down the staircase, try to intimidate him with her NY chinese triad connection, I LOL at that one). It was crazy dramatic.
Anyway, I am glad my wife isn't nuts and we can talk about most things. Then my father/mother-in-law got divorced too and it was pretty bad, but at least it didn't last as long as my brother's. Crazy times.
My high school girlfriend's Dad went out on a business trip. He came home to an empty house that her Mom and her boyfriend had cleaned out. Now that's a mature way to let your hubby know it's over.