Originally Posted by
Brand
I'd say it's both on the enable and the bed ridden person. I mean if a person is so heavy they can't get out of bed, then someone is feeding them and the enabler could you know not feed that person so much. But it is the obese person's problem and they could choose not to eat so much. So I feel in the that kind of situation it's both people.
I got a lot of super bad eating habits from my mother. Now it kills me because she can eat anything and not gain weight (it's not that unusual to see her eat a bag of twizzlers and go to bed). So we always have a lot of candy and crap at home. It wasn't until the doctor told me I had high cholesterol that I started to really watch what I eat, and I was amazed how much sugar I was eating. I lost 30lbs in about 5 months with basically just watching my diet.