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Originally Posted by MarsKitten

Difficulty: no Thai Transgender.

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Well there goes my pics folder out the window.

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Originally Posted by Drewbacca

Could have been hoping for more tips, too. He's a bartender after all -- he probably gets hit on a lot.

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Originally Posted by bbobb

I hate to say it but Drew's right, no bartender is going to tell a woman he's engaged unless it's absolutely necessary.

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Originally Posted by MVS

True, missed the part where he's a bartender.

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Originally Posted by Samba De Amiga

My first thought was that he's a bartender at The Abbey. He probably switches from being gay to straight depending on who he's serving. Gay money still pays the bills. Sapphire, that takes balls (especially you're first time) so kudos to you!

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Originally Posted by burgundy

I mean, let's be honest. You're talking about a hot bartender. Do you think he has a couple notches on his bedpost? It is his job to have drunk women throw themselves at him.

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Originally Posted by Calliander

A bartender, of all people, is going to assume this.

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Originally Posted by haohmaru

The fucking bartender? This was your choice?
That's among the poorest decisions of "men to pursue" that you can possibly choose. You might as well start writing desperate letters to actors in Hollywood while you're at it.

NOT the bartender. Please.

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Originally Posted by Mykozo

Seriously.
They flirt to get tips, so you'd never honestly know if they are being sincere if they flirt back with you. They also get hit on all day long by drunk people, so you can rest assured that no matter what you pull out of your bag of tricks, it's probably not gonna seem like anything but an attempt at a drunken hookup. My only guess for honestly trying to hook up with a bartender would be to try and catch them outside of work, but that could easily come across as stalker-like.

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Judging from the overwhelming response, I feel as if I've committed a cardinal sin in "Hitting On Men 101". I didn't know that bartenders were like the Untouchables of the Indian caste system 0_0. Thanks to everyone for the advice, I really dug the encouragement to try again (with a non-bartender). Are there any others? Police officers, for example?

Before Spring Break, one of the LBPD chatted me up and gave me his number. He seems alright, but I'm a little wary.

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Originally Posted by Glitch

You can tell haohmaru aims high in life.

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Not quite sure what you mean by this, but I'm not out to hook up with male bartenders, either.

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Originally Posted by Glitch

I think she just got unlucky her first time. Not all bartenders are engaged, and not all bartenders will lead you on all night. I say keep your confidence and go after what you want, because you'll never know until you try.

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Sorry, a guy bartender is just the worst.

Constantly getting hit on/laid/hooking up "cute" chicks with drinks to get in their pants and doing this night after night after night after night. Why on earth, as a girl, would you want to hook up/date that? With all the competition night in and night out and countless 4AM nights during the week/weekends, etc...?

If you're after a one night thing, fine. Anything else or expecting much of anything to come from something like this is just naive.

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Originally Posted by SapphirePhoenix

Judging from the overwhelming response, I feel as if I've committed a cardinal sin in "Hitting On Men 101". I didn't know that bartenders were like the Untouchables of the Indian caste system 0_0.

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Hey, we watch out for our own.

If we didn't know you, we'd treat you like the bartender. Telling it like it is = much better.

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Originally Posted by SapphirePhoenix

Judging from the overwhelming response, I feel as if I've committed a cardinal sin in "Hitting On Men 101". I didn't know that bartenders were like the Untouchables of the Indian caste system 0_0. Thanks to everyone for the advice, I really dug the encouragement to try again (with a non-bartender). Are there any others? Police officers, for example?

Before Spring Break, one of the LBPD chatted me up and gave me his number. He seems alright, but I'm a little wary.

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It isn't really a cardinal sin. Its more like us warning you about our friend that is a huge whore that will probably cheat on you.

Hey guys I'm single
wanna play Scene It?

wanna drink?

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Originally Posted by haohmaru

Sorry, a guy bartender is just the worst.

Constantly getting hit on/laid/hooking up "cute" chicks with drinks to get in their pants and doing this night after night after night after night. Why on earth, as a girl, would you want to hook up/date that? With all the competition night in and night out and countless 4AM nights during the week/weekends, etc...?

If you're after a one night thing, fine. Anything else or expecting much of anything to come from something like this is just naive.

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This is the truth. Bartenders come in two flavors, ones that refuse to date any customers and ones that fuck every hot girl they can. They're both going to flirt, but actively hitting on them is pointless unless all you're looking for is a one night stand.

If you've never bartended you have no idea the amount of ass that job brings in.

I used to be a bouncer for a while and that can bring you a nice amount of ass as well, but no where near as much as the bartenders. That shit was crazy to watch, especially when they'd make a game of it to see which one could get the most brods in a night, those guys used to crack me up, lol.

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Originally Posted by haohmaru

Hey, we watch out for our own.

If we didn't know you, we'd treat you like the bartender. Telling it like it is = much better.

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Originally Posted by buttcheeks

It isn't really a cardinal sin. Its more like us warning you about our friend that is a huge whore that will probably cheat on you.

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