I've been stabbed in the heart...

Well my realtionship with my girlfriend came to a shocking end yesterday when she accused me of being possesive with her. I just don't understand how it goes from "I love you and always want to be with you" to "you are possesive and it's creeping me out, lets just be friends."

I guess in some ways I was but only because of her. She was starting to push me away by never calling as much, never stopping by just to say hi, hanging out with other people more than hanging out with me, etc. I tried to get closer to make sure we stayed together and she pulls this crap on me. I need to really get over this whole thing.

Heey...Im sorry :( Its always tough, but I think you hit it right here-

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"I love you and always want to be with you"

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Unless shes totally on the same wavelength, women don't really like to here that kind of stuff. I don't either for that matter. It makes the other person feel..trapped or something. Err-

And I would go into detail about this but now I have to leave for the weekend @___x Feel better soon though, and I bet everyone else around here can help you :sweat:

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Originally posted by Sl1p
Heey...Im sorry :( Its always tough, but I think you hit it right here-



Unless shes totally on the same wavelength, women don't really like to here that kind of stuff. I don't either for that matter. It makes the other person feel..trapped or something. Err-

And I would go into detail about this but now I have to leave for the weekend @___x Feel better soon though, and I bet everyone else around here can help you :sweat:

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She was the one telling me about she never wants to leave me and such. Oh well, life goes on right?

Yerp, Life goes on! Find stuff to do with your time, hang with some friends, play some games etc. And you'll find another one soon enough. :D

I've learned the hard way not to take what a girlfriend says seriously because when you leave yourself attached to them even after they decide to leave you, you put yourself into a world of misery. You got experiance from this at least and the best you can do is to just try to live well without here and possibly, get another girlfriend if there's anyone interested.

Also, I've learned this tip, don't try for one that's looking for attention with other people. They stick with you for awhile, but mostly keep their mind on friends and whoever else they come buy that gets their interest. Try to find one that's more interested in spending time together and you'll be fine. It even works better when she's interested in doing things together like either housework, or something just for fun, that's the type to hang onto. :)

wish best of luck!

Well, you can look at it this way: She obviously isn't the person you thought she was, or that statement would still stand.

Life goes on indeed...

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I guess in some ways I was but only because of her. She was starting to push me away by never calling as much, never stopping by just to say hi, hanging out with other people more than hanging out with me, etc. I tried to get closer to make sure we stayed together and she pulls this crap on me. I need to really get over this whole thing.

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When you're being possessive, you're being just like how moms stare at their children and force them to clean their room, even if they want to play games or something. It makes the other person uncomfortable, and they push away. You hit it right on: just move on, and learn from what happened here. Hope things get better for you.

I would probably have something spiritually uplifting to say if you weren't taking this hella-good. :) Sorry to hear about it though, man, my condolences.

That sucks man, play some GTA3 that will relieve some stress.

Tough break...

Break 'ups are the hardest thing to go through, next to a family member dying. Don't ever begin to think that just because she doesn't want to be with you. No one wants to be with you. Because that's false. Relationships with another human being are supposed to help you become a better person by bringing other attributes to the table. Showing you different things in life and different perspectives. But I will leave you with a good piece of advice.

"I do know one thing though, bitches they come they go. Saturday through Sunday, Monday. Monday through Sunday yo."
-Eminem

Also, you should find a friend to vent to. Talking to another person is the best medicine.