Post Your Pix Part XVIII: Short vs. Tall

[Shin Johnpv]

That's just fucked. What kind of friend are you if you would do that to him?

I'm gonna have to say IBTN.

That's not a friend at all, that's pretty fucked up and pure douchebag asshole IMHO.


I guess Icarus would be ok with it if some one came along and stole his wife away from him.

[Mr-K]

That's just fucked. What kind of friend are you if you would do that to him?

Well, if you like the girl more than the friend then I don't see how this would matter.

[Razor Ramon]

You're the type of friend I wouldn't want.

If you're going to do that to a friend, why would you befriend him in the first place? It doesn't even matter how much you like the person. If he's a friend he's a friend. That's it. If he's not then he's not. Don't be a cunt and straddle the line like a prissy faggot.

[Mr-K]

Sounds to me that in a situation like that you weren't very good friends to begin with--Just judging by what I see in that one sentence. I'm going to imagine that there's more to the story than that one sentence.

It's better as one sentence though.

[Razor Ramon]

I...I...don't know where you're getting at here. I gave you why I wouldn't want you as a friend. Besides you cutting off your hair, of course.

[Mr-K]

I'm just saying, that if I didn't value a connection with a "friend" and did value a connection with his ex-girlfriend, then it wouldn't be a problem going with the girl.

If I valued both, I probably wouldn't go with the girl because I wouldn't want to hurt my friend.

Then again this is all just thinking out loud, I've never been in a situation like that before and doubt I ever will.

[Kidnemo]

I understand the whole "bros 'fore hoes" philosophy.

But it always takes two-to-tango, and if your relationship is so weak, that even after eight years, some guy can waltz in and "take" your woman, I'm not sure how much of a relationship it was in the first place.

I want to be with a person that wants to be with me, not a person who is with me because I'm a stopgap to something better.

[Shin Johnpv]

I understand the whole "bros 'fore hoes" philosophy.

But it always takes two-to-tango, and if your relationship is so weak, that even after eight years, some guy can waltz in and "take" your woman, I'm not sure how much of a relationship it was in the first place.

I want to be with a person that wants to be with me, not a person who is with me because I'm a stopgap to something better.

There is truth to this as well too.

I think the main truth though is a friend shouldn't be trying to fuck your GF.


Though I always have to wonder, you know if you were able to get some one to cheat on some one with you, and then leave that person. What do you honestly think is stopping them from doing the same fucking thing to you. Last person I would marry would be some one who cheated on some one else to be with me.

[Advocate]

Cheaters always cheat is my motto.

I've seen my friends go through that all the time. So, until we hear the WHOLE story from icarusfall; I won't rip him.

[Nash]

If you look at it from another perspective, where it was your friend and your girlfriend getting together, and they seem to be more happy together than she and you were, then I wouldn't want some "moral code" getting in the way of their happiness. I'd gladly step aside. As Kidnemo mentioned, it takes two to tango. If your girl was completely happy with you, then it wouldn't matter who tried to take her away because she wouldn't go.