if you're a notable figure, you have a significant degree of power. Some of the "power dynamic" stuff is just leverage, not necessarily like....obama level power. for instance, you aren't famous, but there are people who work under you or who make less than you, who would benefit from being seen with you or benefit from your connections or experience. So, they may go out of their way to gain your approval. If you're the type who needs validation or sexual stimulus via deviant acts, you'll make them put up with your weird shit so that they can remain close to you.
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