HAPPY NEW YEAR

Giving up porn is what turned Catholic priests to child molestation. Fact.

Had a pretty fun new years, can't complain. I can't believe some people actually spent it in #tnl, poor bastards.

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Originally Posted by Jetman

Had kind of a shitty new years. When to the girls place and spent it with her and her friends. Didnt drink nearly as much as I wanted to - (her friends were non drinkers - wtf). And the girl friends new year resolution was to try and have a lot less sex. She put this resolution into effect last night and stone-balled me. I lose. We both were having awesome pornstar sex for the last couple of weeks so I'm going to kick whomever's ass that made her feel bad about doing it or something.

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You should see how she likes paying for her own stuff when you guys go out. Because really there's no point to it if she takes the payoff off the table.

I got drunk with some buds and some random annoying girl my roommate was trying to bone (swing and a miss), we shot some pool, went to Waffle House at 2 am, and then played Guitar Hero.

I think that not having sex at all is what turned Catholic priests to child molestation. Abstinence, for most people, up to a certain point will drive anyone to do things they might not otherwise do. Though I believe that molestation is definitely not an option unless you're already deranged in some way.
Girls do look at porn, or read erotica, or any utilize any other forms of sexual stimulation, etc. But just like some guys, it either gets old, a relationship develops, they don't have any use for it after a while, or possibly after some personal change in themselves.
New Year's turned out to be pretty good. Had dinner, took a walk, and saw some fireworks set off on someone's personal beach/dock area (lucky bastards). So far, waking up in '06 has been pretty good.

I think child molestation is perfectly normal.

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Originally Posted by Nomi

Gohan, why are you giving up porn? That seems kind of stupid unless some dumb girl is making you do it. Most chicks don't give a shit (either that, or they won't admit that they do it too).

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A few reasons, I guess spiritual convictions are partly behind it but not as so much as other reasons, mostly due to the fact that my religious views have changed quite a bit in the past year or so and arn't quite as strong as they used to be.

It makes it hard to look at women the way that I think I should. Despite what anyone says I should believe I try to be respectful in those regards. I've felt a little depressed about it as well. Just seems to me it will help improve my character overall, not that I have a problem with people who do look at porn.

Well. This goes without saying in Denmark.

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Originally Posted by Gohron

A few reasons, I guess spiritual convictions are partly behind it but not as so much as other reasons, mostly due to the fact that my religious views have changed quite a bit in the past year or so and arn't quite as strong as they used to be.

It makes it hard to look at women the way that I think I should. Despite what anyone says I should believe I try to be respectful in those regards. I've felt a little depressed about it as well. Just seems to me it will help improve my character overall, not that I have a problem with people who do look at porn.

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Translation: Carpal Tunnel Syndrome

anyways; happy new year. I like how the first discussion of the year degrades into a pornography debate. (or something)

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Originally Posted by Mman

but she seems to feel guilty about it...which is never, ever a good sign.

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That's really what it did sound like at first. The last time we fucked, I think I hurt her a little bit (had her by the hair and bent over the side of the couch doggie style) and she got so excited that she had chest pains or something, so I assumed maybe it could have been from that too... <shrugs>. But damn, instead of cutting me off, she could just tell me she doesnt like it that rough or something. We'll see if this resolution shit last's though. I dont think she's found religion or anything so I need to open up the communication lines to see wtf is up.

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Originally Posted by Josh

Your girl, and her shitty friends have to go. I'm dead serious.

You're 28 and you're getting cut off. Imagine 38. Or 48.

Leave this bitch.

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Haha, yeah, her friends are pot heads and really arent too bad, but damn they didnt drink and didnt bring over any pot, so what good are they, you know?Me and the girl were the only ones drinking and it wasnt nearly enough. And yeah like I said, we'll see about this resolution shit...

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Originally Posted by SapphirePhoenix

There are a couple of reasons why she might stop boning you. The New Year makes a lot of people (not only girls) think about what the hell they want to be doing and if they really want to be the way they are for upccoming year. Is she your girlfriend or just a girl friend, and are the two weeks the longest you have known her?

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The two weeks? I've know her longer than that. Do you know something I don't? omgstalker. And yeah, we need to flesh some stuff out to make sure we arent just real close fuck buddies or something. It's funny the way couples all have different views on dating/talking/boyfriend-girlfriend time frames and I do think her's and mine are a bit different.

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Originally Posted by sapphirephoenix

From what you're saying, whatever she is to you, she has been convinced to stop being your mindless sex toy.

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No no, she wanted it just as much if not more than I did. And she shouldnt feel guilty for that because <selfless bragging: I am good in the sack, the best she's ever had according to her (said during and after) <end selfless bragging>
So, no, there's nothing mindless about it. And while I have my methods for getting her horny when I'm with her, I dont demand teh sexors every time I see her.

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Originally Posted by SapphirePhoenix

her friends saying something probably had something to do with it, too.

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No friends of mine. And if they are dudes telling her this, then she isnt either.

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Originally Posted by SapphirePhoenix

Seriously, if you're really bothered by the fact that she isn't going to fuck your brains out every time you lay eyes on her, then leave her. She obviously has been thinking about something and isn't easily going to give you what you want. Leave her (don't be mean about it) and find someone else more to your taste.

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I'm not bothered by it....yet... I have self control in spades and I'm not nearly that superficial to leave someone based solely on that.....yet....I'm just eager to see what "less sex" classifies as.

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Originally Posted by Brisco Bold

Were their other guys at that party? If not, that'd be mad awkward.

GF: "My New Year Resolution is to have less sex." *glares at Jetman*

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There were but they all had girlfriends they were hanging off of.

And she pretty much did exactly this. Of course I LOL'ed..then did this> :| when I realized she was trying to be serious. It was pretty awkward and probably made me look like a perv.