I miss my Grandma.

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Originally Posted by Josh

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Hell no.

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Originally Posted by buttcheeks

try to let the qualities you loved most about her come out in yourself.

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This is the smartest thing I have ever seen you type.

Thank you.

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Originally Posted by Josh

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Grandmas around the world do NOT approve!!

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I never really knew either of my grandmothers. My maternal died while my mom was in college, and my paternal had Parkinson's disease by the time I was old enough to have memories. Try to focus on the good memories you have of her, rather than the thought of her being gone, since she really isn't.

Ahh shit,sorry to hear about that Josh.

Losing family is never an easy thing to get over. Like everyone here says that kind of wound definitely only heals with time. It helps to talk with people who knew that family member and go over how you feel with them. Always a little easier when you know you arent the only one suffering.

And I really fucking hate admitting this, because its not something I do very often (4 years ago when a best friend/girl friend died by a stupid freak accident) and makes me look like a wussy, but a good cry can be relieving. Just do it when no ones watching. It helped for me to punch shit and work out a lot too. I didnt turn to alcohol on that one.

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Originally Posted by Josh

My Grandmother passed away today. I don't know what to do.

I don't know why I'm posting this here and not signing up for a livejournal account or something, but you guys are my friends and I feel like saying something.

I don't know. This is hard... how do you deal with something like this? I've lost friends, and one ex-girlfriend but this seems to hurt more. Alcohol isn't helping either.

I just don't know what to do.

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I lost mine last september. She pratically raised me from birth to 16 while my parents worked. We knew she was on her way out, and I got to say goodbye to her, but it didn't help any when she finally did pass. Sorry, Josh.

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Originally Posted by Tain

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Originally Posted by Jetman

a good cry can be relieving.

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Everyone cries. The ones who can't admit it are the real pussies.

I'm really sorry to hear this man. I've never personally had anyone in my family pass away, so I don't really know what you're going through. But like people said before me, just keep your head up and stay positive, I'm sure your grandmother was a great woman, and deserves to be remembered as so.