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I <3 shidoshi.
icarusfall is making bleeding hearts such as myself look bad. I'm sympathetic to how difficult it must be for her. But she caused a baby to die through gross neglegence on her own part. Come on. If that was someone else's kid, you wouldn't think twice about throwing her in jail. You don't have the right to kill your kid just because you'll feel bad after you do it.
If she's such a non-functional alcoholic that she's homeless and unable to care for her child, jail might be what she needs. It's a roof over her head, and she'd learn to live life sober.
No, the word choice was a poor one - I extrapolated where I shouldn't have. I was really talking about people wanting her imprisoned for this. The point I was originally getting at is I don't think she should go to jail. If you want her to get in some kind of trouble for it, I'm alright with that, but prison?
I'm a little curious as to how the mother ended up in this situation to start with - not that I'm saying she isn't to blame; SHE IS. To make any assumptions about how she got to this point would be presumptuous on either of our parts.
I'm not saying this in a shitty way, I'm curious as to how you came to your view. Have any of you ever been in a situation that you could really call desperate? How about the fear? Ever been down that road? Not scared because you got mugged once, I mean soul-destroying-paralysis fear.
She MURDERED a child. If you don't go to prison for killing someone, what do you go to prison for?
Being desperate is an excuse to steal food. It doesn't get you off the hook for killing your infant. Is that really a hard concept to understand?
I think that anyone on this baord in the same situation as her in terms of age, location and money would have watched that kid instead of getting drunk.
The idea that people should be free of any and all personal responsibility for being stupid is completely fucking ridiculous. 5 years is a slap on the wrist for someone that kills a child.
Haha, you guys are all nuts (except for icarusfall). Why does it have to be let-her-off-the-hook-completely or throw-her-in-jail-for-the-rest-of-her-life? icarusfall isn't arguing let her off the hook. He's just arguing throwing the book at her is not proportionate to the crime committed. You throw the book at a murdering rapist, not at a criminally negligent mother. She should be punished, but not to the extent everyone is saying.
Living someone elses life for them from the comfort of your own computer seems easy enough. Except that when you live life things aren't usually so squeaky clean or crystal clear. You don't know who this woman is and what she's been through, so it's really irrational to be this kind of finger wagging.
I do agree she should face jail time. Negligence resulting in the death of a child cannot be left unattended.