Possible to be just friends with an Ex?

[Satsuki]

Sounds like you had a former stalker or something though. Especially being TERRIFIED? I've had a couple of inoppurtune times of having ex's show up at parties when Im with my current. Those are always awkward and slightly embarrasing. especially if the ex let herself go. "Did you date HER?"

I do have more than enough stalkers to spare, but no, this wasn't especially a stalker. I was just a bit unnerved because I heard through a reliable source that he moved out of state, so I was like "whew, don't have to worry about that akwardness anymore." So to see him at school, MY school, was very unnerving. Surprising, really. Obviously he is not out of state.
Also he got really ugly and grew his hair out and looks like a homeless fellow.

[Jetman]

I do have more than enough stalkers to spare, but no, this wasn't especially a stalker. I was just a bit unnerved because I heard through a reliable source that he moved out of state, so I was like "whew, don't have to worry about that akwardness anymore." So to see him at school, MY school, was very unnerving. Surprising, really. Obviously he is not out of state.
Also he got really ugly and grew his hair out and looks like a homeless fellow.

Ahh, haha, sounds like you were in a similar state as me and afraid of being embarrased by the guy and his loserly-ness.The key is to not make eye contact. Like an Ostrich. Just avoid it at all costs. If they remember you're name though, you have to improvise...

[burgundy]

All I need it TNL's crew to see her online sometime and be all , "Oh, Shit," lol " You're Jetman's girlfriend from that thread on TNL.com!@1 who isn't as hot as I fronted".

[Satsuki]

Ahh, haha, sounds like you were in a similar state as me and afraid of being embarrased by the guy and his loserly-ness.The key is to not make eye contact. Like an Ostrich. Just avoid it at all costs. If they remember you're name though, you have to improvise...

ugh, I wish. It was COMPLETELY unavoidable. Like, small sidewalk, walking toward you, no escape sort of thing. He smiled at me and said "hi" and I said "what are you doing here? (I meant as in what are you doing in California, you fucking douchebag)" and he said "I'm going home" and I said "oh" and walked away.

so. Now school is full of traps, traps and exes.

[burgundy]

That was the most meaningless anecdote in the history of TNL.

[Jetman]

ugh, I wish. It was COMPLETELY unavoidable. Like, small sidewalk, walking toward you, no escape sort of thing. He smiled at me and said "hi" and I said "what are you doing here? (I meant as in what are you doing in California, you fucking douchebag)" and he said "I'm going home" and I said "oh" and walked away.

so. Now school is full of traps, traps and exes.

At least you didnt give him an inch though. If he doesnt want to look like a chode and embarrass himself he'll just walk the other way and wont look up the next time he sees you.

[Tones]

Facebook will cure all of your problems.

1. Send me a link to hers, so I can deny/confirm her hotness.

2. Revoke her friendship, and make your profile friends only. Game over.

[Satsuki]

That was the most meaningless anecdote in the history of TNL.

I know. Forgive me?

[burgundy]

You'll have to earn it.

Actually, it was only meaningless if you randomly ran into the guy, which is what I assumed. If the guy actually sought you out (and who wouldn't! <3) then it was actually story-worthy.

[napalm]

I have an interesting twist to add to this thread: I met this friend of a friend who happened to be a girl, and we both hit it off great. We have been hanging out a lot, because we get along so well. Anyhow, this girl isn't much of a looker, and so I've been hanging out with her a lot purely as friends. Slowly though, I find myself growing more and more attracted to her, and I can tell she's feeling the same. I have no desire to be in a relationship, and I know this girl is not very attractive, yet I can't help but find myself being slowly drawn to her. What do I do?